July 14, 2023
The Most Compatible Zodiac Signs, According to Astrologers
Christopher Ehlers READ TIME: 13 MIN.
For hundreds of years, astrologers have looked to the stars to try to make sense of our love connections here on earth. Given that zodiac signs can explain some personality traits, the thinking goes that our charts can also indicate which signs are most compatible.
Brides magazine enlisted the help of two experts to make their best recommendations: Colin Bedell, the author of "Queer Cosmos: The Astrology of Queer Identities and Relationships" and Lisa Stardust, the author of "The Love Deck."
Of course, both astrologers are quick to point out that connections can be forged between any of the signs. "It's been my experience as a professional astrologer that all zodiac signs can come together and have long-lasting relationships," Stardust told Brides. However, "Bedell suggests that all of us can benefit from learning about our opposing sign, utilizing these insights to bring more harmony into every love story we choose to explore," the magazine noted.
Here are Bedell and Stardust's take on which signs are best suited for romance:
Aries and Libra
"Just like striking a match, sparks are bound to fly when fiery Aries and Air sign Libra come together. According to Bedell, if these two are willing to appreciate and learn from their differences, they'll create an unstoppable blaze of chemistry. Every sign has a planet whose energy influences its behavior, and with independent Mars in charge of Aries and harmonious Venus ruling Libra, Bedell is confident this pairing will 'give each other the balance of autonomy and connection' every relationship needs to thrive. Whereas Libra can help Aries become more considerate and engaged in the community, he says Aries will frequently need to remind their Libra love, 'Babe, [it's okay to] take care of you, too.' "
Gemini and Virgo
"Outgoing Air sign Gemini can find grounding and strength in a romantic partnership with the organized Earth sign Virgo. Meanwhile, a Virgo can loosen up with the help of a carefree Gemini. 'These mercurial signs will share laughs and memories throughout the years because they'll be loyal to the other,' says Stardust."
Taurus and Scorpio
"Taurus, an Earth sign ruled by Venus, is drawn to sharing tactile beauty, while Scorpio, a Water sign ruled by transformational Pluto, craves intensity and exploring what hides beneath the surface. As Bedell points out, the contrast here is exactly what makes this particular pairing so ripe for growth. 'Scorpio really deals with the reality of pain and pleasure,' he says, and is a fiercely loyal companion in helping Taurus embrace 'all of the storms of life [as much as] rainbows and 400-thread sheet counts.' Alternatively, the infectious joie de vivre of Taurus gives Scorpio permission to step out of the ocean and realize how nice it is to just dig your toes in the sand once in a while. Together, this duo can cultivate a lasting foundation that can weather anything."
Libra and Leo
"A Libra and a Leo are a dynamic and effortless romantic pairing. 'Both zodiac signs have big hearts and love to be romanced, making them cheerleaders of the other,' explains Stardust. With Leo's bold personality and craving for the spotlight and Libra's proclivity for balance and beauty, they can complement each other to make a positive power couple."
Gemini and Sagittarius
"An Air and Fire sign pair, Gemini and Sagittarius have all the ingredients for a relationship full of fireworks, foreign lands, and emotional inquiry. What really makes these signs compatible is, ironically, their mutual need for healthy boundaries. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, which is the planet of communication and internal evolution. '[They're] always reinventing and exploring new personas and need breathing room for self-discovery,' says Bedell. Meanwhile, adventurous Jupiter-ruled Sagittarius goes outward for a sense of purpose, and requires 'freedom to explore, get curious, and live from a place of continually broadening vision,' he shares. This pair really understands and celebrates each other's need for ever-expanding horizons, and both feel grateful to have a partner committed to wondering and wandering."
Scorpio and Pisces
"Zodiac signs ruled by the same elements can easily find themselves on identical wavelengths. That's why creative Scorpio and dreamy Pisces make a great match. Stardust says, 'These two water signs use their intuition and imagination to create a mutual understanding that transcends the material world.' "
Taurus and Capricorn
"Earth signs can also find balance and partnership with each other. Steady, luxury-loving Taurus and driven, family-focused Capricorn are a stable and loving match. 'Since both of these Earth signs like to have fun, they'll put work first as well as their obligations but know how to play hard together,' adds Stardust."
Aquarius and Sagittarius
"Individuality, creativity, and a desire to explore are major facets of both an Aquarius' and Sagittarius' personalities. That's what helps make them an excellent partnership in life and love. As a couple, the two signs are always talking to each other, making plans for the future, and bringing enthusiasm into each other's lives. Stardust says, 'This autonomous pairing will enjoy cooking together, watching movies, and making travel plans to see the world.' "
Cancer and Capricorn
"The only sign to be ruled by the moon, emotionally intuitive Cancer might seem like a more than unlikely match for logical, Saturn-led Capricorn. However, when this set of signs comes together as lovebirds, they create the perfect counterbalance between gentle flow and trustworthy structure. Cancer's oceanic healing energy finds a perfect companion in Capricorn's grounded wisdom. 'While Capricorn can hold the weight of their deep emotionality, Cancer feels emotionally safe [and is] drawn to their partner's reliability, discipline, and integrity,' he explains. On the flip side, 'Capricorn appreciates Cancer's generous vulnerability' and feels inspired by them 'to step into and show up more fully for their [own] feelings.' "
Aries and Cancer
"While Fire sign Aries and Water sign Cancer seem like opposites, their two natures are actually quite complementary. Nurturing Cancer is attracted to the confidence of an Aries, while the Ram appreciates the Crab's sensitivity. As a couple, Stardust says, 'These cardinal signs like to get projects started and always motivate the other to be the best versions of themselves.' "
Leo and Aquarius
"When Sun-ruled and fiery Leo joins up with Aquarius, an otherworldly Air sign led by innovative Uranus, a power couple can form. Bedell shares, 'What most people don't know about Leo is that these singular superstars can get a little lonely in their castle and crave both attention and connection." As a result, they can't help but 'admire how universally adored Aquarius is,' and loves this Air sign's ability to 'show them a whole new [community and] experience.' "
Virgo and Pisces
"Bedell considers the pairing of Virgo and Pisces unbeatable in their combined ability to heal a hurting world, and these signs are continually moved and motivated by each other's strengths. While Virgo is skilled in understanding the intimate relationship between the body and nature, Pisces intuitively senses how to read the heart. 'Virgo is in awe of Pisces' transcendent, spiritual nature,' explains Bedell. 'Pisces benefits from Virgo's ability to translate and apply their divine energy here on earth.' This couple hears, helps, and uplifts everyone (and everything) in their path."