Out with Dr. Bill – Wedding Bells in Mexico City, the Alamo, and an Eclipse

Dr. William Kapfer READ TIME: 11 MIN.

AJ Kiehner, William Kapfer, Jacob Stetson

The hosts had chosen a theme for the evening: Bold patterns and vibrant colors. It was truly inspiring to witness how each guest embraced the theme with gusto, arriving in a kaleidoscope of stunning ensembles.

The energy of the gathering was infectious as we came together to celebrate amidst such a visually captivating setting!

The magic continued with the black-tie wedding ceremony at Proyecto Publico.

Located in the eclectic Prim 30 neighborhood, the venue is a vibrant and colorful space that epitomizes the lively spirit and cultural richness of the area. This dynamic space has been thoughtfully converted from an old building into a bustling hub for social and cultural events, making it a popular choice for everything from art exhibitions and creative workshops to music concerts and private parties.

The venue's architecture is a captivating mix of the old and the new, featuring original exposed brickwork paired with contemporary art installations and modern design elements.

We heard from the wedding planner that the venue regularly collaborates with local artists, musicians, and culinary talents to offer unique and immersive experiences that celebrate the diverse cultural tapestry of Mexico City.

The heartfelt exchange of vows, each having written their own personal message, elicited what Eric called "waterworks" from me – I was so overwhelmed with emotion, as were many other guests in the room.

William Kapfer, AJ Kiehner, Eric Baker

The ceremony was followed by an exuberant reception including mariachis and margaritas, followed by a full evening of dining and dancing.

By full, I mean we had the venue until 2 AM. This marked the highlight of a truly unforgettable and joyful week!

This trip wasn't our first Mexico City wedding, which speaks volumes about the city's draw as a cultural epicenter. The city is a captivating blend of ancient traditions, lively culture, and contemporary vibrancy.

Reflecting on our time in Mexico City, the journey was a rich mosaic of cultural engagement, culinary treats, and joyous celebrations, setting a jubilant tone before we continued on to Texas.

Journeying Through San Antonio: History, Culture, and More

Marc Levine, William Kapfer,, Eric Baker, Paul Edwards, the Alamo

After our exhilarating time in Mexico City, we journeyed to Texas to immerse ourselves in the rich history and charm of San Antonio, a beloved gem in the Lone Star State.

Our visit was organized by Gamma Mu, our men's social fraternity and philanthropic group. One of the highlights of joining Gamma Mu nearly three decades ago has been not only the lifelong friendships we've forged, but also the introduction to the Gamma Mu Foundation.

Since its establishment in 1988, the foundation has been committed to providing college scholarships to deserving young people and funding projects in rural and underserved areas that support the LGBT community.

From the moment we arrived, we immersed ourselves in the city's vibrant life. We started our exploration at the iconic River Walk, a verdant oasis of pathways, bridges, and waterways that snake through the city center.

The area bustled with shops, restaurants, and cafes, providing perfect spots for us to grab snacks and souvenirs while sharing laughs and stories with fellow fraternity brothers.

Next, we visited the San Antonio Museum of Art. This impressive facility houses a comprehensive collection that spans thousands of years and boasts significant Asian, Latin American, and Islamic sections. Wandering through the galleries, we marveled at the historical depth and cultural diversity of the exhibits.

We ended our first 24 hours in San Antonio with a visit to the Alamo, an enduring symbol of Texan pride and resilience.

This historic mission, where a small group of Texan defenders held out against the Mexican Army in 1836, isn't just a monument – it's a pilgrimage site for those who appreciate American history!

Our experience at the Alamo was extraordinary; we enjoyed the privilege of a private dinner in the mission's secluded garden. The meal featured homemade tostadas with pulled pork, queso, and fresh guacamole, making our visit truly unforgettable.

The afternoon included a lecture by one of the Alamo's historians who provided an in-depth context of the battle and explored the extensive exhibits showcasing artifacts from the Texas Revolution.

This rich narrative added layers of understanding and appreciation to our experience, deepening our connection to this pivotal site in American history.

Cheers to Scott's Birthday: Post-Mexico City Celebration

William Kapfer, Scott Pask, Eric Baker

Right after returning from Mexico City, we dropped our luggage at our apartment and caught the last call for drinks at Elmo with Scott Pask to celebrate his birthday. Sharing this milestone with Scott, a fellow Aries and dear friend, meant a lot to us.

Eric and I cherish these moments – celebrating birthdays, weddings, and other significant occasions with our friends.

Manhattan Eclipse Moment

Wiliam Kapfer

The following afternoon, Eric and I took our lunch breaks and met just in time to join thousands of New Yorkers to witness the greatest sight nature offers, a near-total eclipse of the Sun.

Known as the Great North American Eclipse, this celestial event was visible across a swath covering parts of North America, from Mexico to Canada and through the contiguous United States.
While the prime locations for viewing in New York were cities like Niagara Falls, Buffalo, and Plattsburgh, we nonetheless enjoyed a bird's-eye view of the sun, donning protective glasses, from Manhattan.

We were a bit nervous as the bewitching hour approached, as the sky was filled with white, feathery cirrus clouds. Well, I assumed they were clouds, it might have simply been smog.

But in a divine moment, the skies cleared to offer us an ideal vantage point to observe the syzygy – alignment of the Sun, Earth, and Moon – near Hudson River Park by 14th Street along the West Side Highway. The collective experience of sharing this astronomical phenomenon with a crowd of strangers was uniquely bonding, an experience even more poignant in the bustling solitude of a vast city like New York.


by Dr. William Kapfer

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