Where are they Now: Former YouTube Couple Mark Miller & Ethan Hethcote

Shawn Laib READ TIME: 4 MIN.


Miller has always been eloquent and has been able to reflect on the turning points in life's journey from his early 20s to the present. When celebrating his 31st time around the sun, Miller shows appreciation for his past and hope for the future. It's indicative of the scary yet fascinating existential thoughts that run amok as people evolve into each new decade of life.


Gay men often worry about aging and how it will affect their place in the community, therefore, it's vital for influencers like Miller to show young viewers that those anxieties don't have to exist.


Hethcote loves to share his travels and adventures with the world. He took a trip to Sicily in 2022, where he enjoyed time with his boyfriend and took in the sights and sounds of the historic European locale. The picture with the vespa reminds makes us want to visit Italy or at least rewatch The White Lotus!

Hethcote decided to be a little less wordy than his ex-boyfriend when showing off his 29th birthday celebration. He let the pictures of the Dalmatian Coast do the talking while enjoying the beautiful water and a fresh kiwi!


Miller still makes YouTube videos, but now many of the vlogs are more podcast-style conversations with other influencers. He tackles the issues like body image, promiscuity, and sexting in the queer community, especially in regards to dating apps. Fans enjoy seeing Miller's thoughtfulness and the evolution of his content over a decade after starting online.

Part of Hethcote's appeal to his fans is his loyalty to his Midwestern roots. He regularly goes back to his hometown of Indiana or lives like he did when he was growing up in a rural area. Showing some chest hair and a flannel shirt, the influencer introduces his fans to a new cat named Yoshi!


Miller feeds into the thirst worthiness of Shawn Mendes by trying a $70 white shirt advertised by the sexy singer through his campaign with Tommy Hilfiger. Miller sticks to his classic vlogging style with personable looks into his daily routine and a healthy conversation in the comments section.

Hethcote gets sensual and steamy with a preview of the type of content he specializes in now on OnlyFans. A peek at his tattooed torso and legs will surely entice many fans to subscribe to his account!


Miller talks about the unique circumstances, triumphs, and fears that litter the gay community when trying to date and find a significant other. There are clearly special issues facing queer folks that straight people don't have to think about when going out on a date, and fans in the comments talked about some of the largest talking points. Superficiality and a focus on sex instead of internal qualities were at the top of the list of problems.

Hethcote shows his trip to Rome during the winter of 2022. This type of vacation content gives fans a nice look at his life away from modeling and shows him to be just as cultured and interesting as when he dated Miller.


by Shawn Laib

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